Explain the title “Double Face”
The story “Double Face” is told through Lindo Jong’s perspective and is a story that revolves around identifying the differences between China and America. Lindo Jong and her daughter, Waverly, are at a beauty parlor where Lindo recognizes certain similarities as well as differences between her and her daughter. When Mr. Rory, the hair-stylist, tells Lindo and Waverly that “[it’s] uncanny how much [they] look alike,” Lindo smiles only to realize that her daughter’s eyes and smile gradually become very narrow. Their physical features are almost identical, and so Lindo begins seeing Waverly’s future, as Lindo’s present. Lindo thinks that their two faces are so much the same; the same happiness, the same sadness, the same good fortune and the same faults. Lindo does not want her daughter to turn out like she had; she wants her to have a better life; one that Lindo could never have. That is what distinguishes Lindo and her daughter because although they may be physically similar they are different on the inside. Lindo was born Chinese, lived in China most of her life until she moved to America and learned about the American ways, yet she always had that part of her that was more Chinese than it was American. Waverly was born an American, raised in an American society with American values and morals and therefore she is more American than she is Chinese. Lindo shows this when she talks about Waverly saying, “[only] her skin and hair are Chinese. Inside – she is all American made” (254). Lindo wants her daughter’s life to differ greatly from her own. She wants her children to grow up with the best combination: American circumstances and Chinese character; however, she soon realizes that “these two things do not mix” (254). Here is where we begin to see the difference between China and America and how both Lindo and Waverly possess double faces; their American face and their Chinese face. “In America, nobody says you have to keep the circumstances somebody else gives you” (254). This means that what you are told is not necessarily what you have to do. This is not the case when dealing with Chinese character, which teaches you “[how] to obey your parents and listen to your mother’s mind. How not to show your own thoughts, [and] to put your feelings behind your face so you can take advantage of hidden opportunities. Why easy things are not worth pursuing. How to know your own worth and polish it, never flashing it around like a cheap ring” (254). Waverly learned American circumstances but not Chinese character and as a result she is more influenced by the American society and therefore is more American than she is Chinese. A few days ago, I watched a documentary on the differences between China and America and they spoke about how Chinese people do not encourage independence from family, and also discourage free-thought. Chinese expect their children to obey them and their family’s desires. They also tell their children that nothing comes easy in life, and not to expect to get everything that they want, but if they work hard, they will get something. In contrast, the American society is always pressuring young adults to adapt to independence and they send this message that nothing is impossible, everything can be accomplished and you can get anything and everything you want from life. Another interpretation of the title “Double Face” could be thought up similarly to a person who is two-faced, which means they say one thing but do another, “[they’re] looking one way, while following another. [They’re] for one side and also the other” (266). By the end of the story, Lindo realizes that she is more similar to her daughter than different, and just like Waverly is a reflection of her mother; Lindo is also a reflection of her daughter.
Friday, January 23, 2009
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Joy Luck Club - Thread #2: "Half and Half"
Explain how the title "Half and Half" fits the story so well.
The story, “Half and Half” is told through Rose Hsu Jordan’s perspective. It is a story that surrounds the concepts of faith as well as fate. The story begins with Rose on the brink of her divorce, where she finds herself not being able to tell her mother that she is separating from Ted, her husband. Rose knows that her mom will only say that she “must save [the marriage]” (116). Rose does not want to save the marriage because she “could feel things changing between [her and Ted]” (120). Ted was changing; he was becoming a different man from the one Rose had married. As Ted and the relationship between Rose and him changes, so does Rose’s view on their marriage as a whole like why they initially got married. I believe that both Rose and Ted did love each other to an extent but realized a greater love for each other when they recognized that their parents disapproved of them. At times, children often do the exact opposite of what their parents tell them to do as a form of rebellion. The children think that they will drive their parents mad if they never do what they are told. I do not necessarily think they wanted to drive their parents mad; however, I do think that because both Rose's and Ted’s parents are trying to control them in every aspect of their lives, they got fed up and needed to stand up for themselves, which eventually led them into a ‘rushed’ marriage. Through the text we realize that the marriage was a complete disaster. This is shown in the conversation between Ted and Rose where Ted says, “How the hell did we ever get married? […] what would you have done with your life if I had never married you” (120)? Rose is shocked describing the incident saying that she “thought [they] were like two people standing apart on separate mountain peaks, recklessly leaning forward to throw stones at one another, unaware of the dangerous chasm that separated [them]” (120). This brings me to my point of how the title “Half and Half” is significant to the story. Firstly, “Half and Half” is generally describing two opposing forces that are linked as one. Just like it is impossible for you to get up without falling, or for you to learn without failing. These opposing forces are linked together in that one must happen in order for the other to occur. Similarly, to the Yin-Yang symbol, which is an ancient Chinese understanding of how things work. The "yin" is a black color that symbolizes darkness, passiveness as well as weakness. The "yang" is the opposite in that it is a white color that symbolizes brightness, activeness and strong will. Because the "yin" and "yang" are exact opposites, this allows them to cancel each other out in a way and become one. Ted and Rose are two people who come from different backgrounds but together, like the Yin-Yang, they are linked as one. I believe that Yin-Yang is another form of displaying the concept of ‘karma’ because just like the Yin-Yang, karma has the similar concept of what goes around comes around. It is the knowledge that whenever something bad happens in your life, there will always be something greater that will sort of counter-balance everything back into tranquility. If one’s life was only full of happy moments, then it would logically be considered an unbalanced life because there are no gloomy events to offset the cheerful instances. Therefore, it is essential that there are two halves that are exact opposites, so that they can become one whole. Like we have been taught, opposites attract and when this occurs, the result is not a “Half and Half,” it is a whole.
The story, “Half and Half” is told through Rose Hsu Jordan’s perspective. It is a story that surrounds the concepts of faith as well as fate. The story begins with Rose on the brink of her divorce, where she finds herself not being able to tell her mother that she is separating from Ted, her husband. Rose knows that her mom will only say that she “must save [the marriage]” (116). Rose does not want to save the marriage because she “could feel things changing between [her and Ted]” (120). Ted was changing; he was becoming a different man from the one Rose had married. As Ted and the relationship between Rose and him changes, so does Rose’s view on their marriage as a whole like why they initially got married. I believe that both Rose and Ted did love each other to an extent but realized a greater love for each other when they recognized that their parents disapproved of them. At times, children often do the exact opposite of what their parents tell them to do as a form of rebellion. The children think that they will drive their parents mad if they never do what they are told. I do not necessarily think they wanted to drive their parents mad; however, I do think that because both Rose's and Ted’s parents are trying to control them in every aspect of their lives, they got fed up and needed to stand up for themselves, which eventually led them into a ‘rushed’ marriage. Through the text we realize that the marriage was a complete disaster. This is shown in the conversation between Ted and Rose where Ted says, “How the hell did we ever get married? […] what would you have done with your life if I had never married you” (120)? Rose is shocked describing the incident saying that she “thought [they] were like two people standing apart on separate mountain peaks, recklessly leaning forward to throw stones at one another, unaware of the dangerous chasm that separated [them]” (120). This brings me to my point of how the title “Half and Half” is significant to the story. Firstly, “Half and Half” is generally describing two opposing forces that are linked as one. Just like it is impossible for you to get up without falling, or for you to learn without failing. These opposing forces are linked together in that one must happen in order for the other to occur. Similarly, to the Yin-Yang symbol, which is an ancient Chinese understanding of how things work. The "yin" is a black color that symbolizes darkness, passiveness as well as weakness. The "yang" is the opposite in that it is a white color that symbolizes brightness, activeness and strong will. Because the "yin" and "yang" are exact opposites, this allows them to cancel each other out in a way and become one. Ted and Rose are two people who come from different backgrounds but together, like the Yin-Yang, they are linked as one. I believe that Yin-Yang is another form of displaying the concept of ‘karma’ because just like the Yin-Yang, karma has the similar concept of what goes around comes around. It is the knowledge that whenever something bad happens in your life, there will always be something greater that will sort of counter-balance everything back into tranquility. If one’s life was only full of happy moments, then it would logically be considered an unbalanced life because there are no gloomy events to offset the cheerful instances. Therefore, it is essential that there are two halves that are exact opposites, so that they can become one whole. Like we have been taught, opposites attract and when this occurs, the result is not a “Half and Half,” it is a whole.
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